It is not necessary to have a perfect appearance to captivate people at first sight. Naturalness is what really attracts.
10. Openness
One of the important qualities that attracts people is openness. If a person subconsciously erects a wall between himself and the world around him, people feel this on an instinctive level and do not seek to get closer. A closed person himself, without realizing it, pushes away from himself. Openness is an unselfish desire to share warmth with others, but at the same time not to put their interests below the interests of other people. This is the ability to find harmony with oneself and the world. To invite other people into your inner world without fear to remain vulnerable is one of the features of a charming person who bribes and attracts other people.
9. Tact
In our world, where the Internet and social networks reign, everyone considers it necessary to express their opinion on any occasion. But more often than not, “own opinion” conceals a desire to pour mud on another person. Only unsure personalities do this. Being able to express your opinion is an important feature, but you need to do this tactfully so as not to offend or humiliate another person. In a relationship, it’s important to feel a fine line that you cannot go beyond. To have the beat, you need to be able to hear people, not just listen. Tact is a trait that charming personalities possess.
8. Sincerity
Sincerity is always perceived as something warm, coming from the heart. Now it is very difficult to find a sincere person. If you want to see real sincerity, look at young children. The reaction of babies is not always the reason for adults, but it always comes from the heart, and not from the mind. Adults often hide their feelings, considering them inappropriate. Sometimes it is really necessary, but in most cases it is sincere feelings that cause sympathy in other people. Only sincerity that comes from the soul gives rise to reciprocal sincerity. Nothing is more captivating than the expression of real, genuine emotions.
7. Confidence in conversation
You can often see how individuals who do not have outstanding talent achieve unprecedented heights. The secret to such success is self-confidence. Confidence should come from the ability to give oneself. Including it concerns conversations. By the intonation of a person it is easy to understand whether he is confident in himself or not. The ability to express your thoughts tactfully and benevolently in relation to others - is the foundation of confidence in the conversation. Opposing qualities - passivity and aggression speak of insecurity and a sense of fear. Therefore, if you are not afraid to speak out, but do it so as not to hurt the feelings of others, then you are a charming person, but you do not suspect it.
6. Mindfulness
Charming person makes care. Noticing the details, any minor changes that occur in the lives of loved ones, without realizing it, you acquire a special charm. Mindfulness is one of those qualities that do not require special skills. To be attentive means to enter into the position of another person and provide support and care. First of all, when communicating with other people, it is important to show a keen interest. An attentive person is always sensitive and responsive, but at the same time does not put other people's interests above his own.
5. Patience
Nothing makes a person charming like patience. This patience can be characterized in different ways, but all descriptions will be united by one - the ability to remain calm and calm in any situation. If you can ignore external stimuli and take a sober look at the situation, in the eyes of other people this quality will be admired. A fussy person is always on the platoon and this scares off other people. Confidence and calm emanate from a patient person, which so attracts others.
4. Curiosity
Have you often come across interesting, but not curious people? Most probably not. If a person is not interested in anything, he has no hobbies and hobbies, it is difficult to call such a person charming. But even worse, if a person is inquisitive, reads a lot, can tell a lot, and maybe even inspire others with his example, because of shyness, he tries not to show his passions to other people. Such a person may not realize how charming he can be if he stops hiding his head in the sand. Curiosity is the quality that makes a person alive, open to the whole world. The richer the life experience, the more interesting the personality for others.
3. Good memory for names
For any person, the pronunciation of his name is one of the most pleasant sounds. The name has its own energy. The ability to remember people by name, however strange it may seem, is not given to everyone. Many people when they meet in a few minutes forget the name of the person. Moreover, if several people are introduced to him at once. Here this awkward situation arises when you need to turn to a person, but you can’t remember his name. You can charm a person in the first minutes of acquaintance only by remembering his name.
2. Sociability
The sociable person knows how to win over almost anyone. Sociable people quickly join the new team and achieve more in life, in contrast to closed personalities. This is not to say that isolation is a drawback, but the modern world is a world of extroverts, where introverts have to adapt. It can be said that sociability and charm are synonyms. Unaware of this, sociable people attract and charm other people. If you are lucky and you have sociability by nature, then there is no doubt that you can charm anyone. This quality makes a person incredibly charming.
1. Praise others
It is important to note that it is praise from a pure heart, and not flattery, that makes a person charming. Sincere words will provoke a positive reaction in the other person immediately. All people need praise for their actions or actions, but many forget about it. But do not forget to criticize the person for any reason. This is especially true for close people. In the hustle and bustle, we forget to say thanks to the family for their actions or simply do not pay attention, taking care as something ordinary. Only a strong person is not afraid to praise others. Only the weak and insecure personalities degrade the dignity of other people.